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July 9, 2024 by Andre Nell Leave a Comment

Unable to resolve conflict?

There are 3 milestones to effective conflict resolution

  1. Does the other party feel understood and are they willing to help me understand them
  2. Does the other party understand me and are they willing to communicate in a way that helps them to understand me.
  3. A decision is made

When two parties want to understand each other, but are at an impasse, they may not know how to keep the conversation going.

Socratic Communication

The solution is to keep the conversation flowing!

‘Socratic Selling’ by Kevin Dahle provides some simple solutions through ways to ask for additional information.

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Here are some simple things you can say to keep the conversation going

  • Tell me more about that
  • When it comes to this issue, what are your thoughts on this?
  • Why do you feel or think that way about this?

ASK!

Next time you are not sure how to respond in a conversation to resolve conflict, simply ask. Use one of the suggestions provided and see what happens.

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Filed Under: Communication, Leadership, Sales

Qualifying

July 9, 2024 by Andre Nell Leave a Comment

Instead of memorizing multiple techniques, think of sales as the pursuit of 3 objectives.

  1. The prospect feels understood
  2. The prospect understands your solution
  3. The prospect makes a decision.

When I sell, I use these three objectives to select which skills to switch to in order to move the sale along.

The skills I’m referring to are primarily:

  • The ability to ask clarifying questions
  • The ability to clarify understanding
  • The ability to listen with the intent to understand.
  • The ability to help others make decisions.

Understanding the 3 Sales objectives.

Objective 1: The Prospect feels understood. 

This is often termed qualifying the prospect. Here it is easy to make the mistake of going through a list of questions without really meeting the objective.

Developing your qualifying process is important. Your qualifying process will provide the questions that must be answered in order to determine if you should continue pursuing a prospect. But if your eye (and more importantly, your ears) are not focused on achieving objective 1, you may complete ‘Qualifying your prospect, and moving on, while leaving your prospect behind and tuned out.

It’s not important that you understand the prospect. It is important that they feel you understand them. The difference is critical!

When in doubt, ask questions. Don’t just move on.

Objective 2: The prospect understands your solution.

As you present your solution, show the prospect how your solution addresses their needs and wants you that you identified while achieving objective 1. This is referred to as selling benefits, and not selling features.

If you’re doing this, the prospect will be engaged in understanding your solutions. If they are not engaged, make sure they feel understood again, or ask confirming questions to determine if they see and understand how your solution solves their problem. Don’t assume they understand.

When in doubt, ask questions!

Don’t just move on.

 Objective 3:  The prospect makes a decision.

A decision is either Yes, or No to your solution. 

Anything else is either them saying no, and not wanting to hurt you, or an indication that they do not have enough authority or information to make a decision.

Get comfortable with ‘Its not what I’m looking for’. 

There are ways to move a prospect from that position to actually buying and that requires getting better and better at achieving the first 2 objectives. But if you are subconsciously avoiding getting a no, you draw out the sales process to still ultimately getting a much more expensive no, because of the additional time invested in avoiding the decision, and still pursuing the prospect.

Filed Under: Sales

Simplify The Sales Process

May 21, 2024 by Andre Nell Leave a Comment

Instead of memorizing multiple techniques, think of sales as the pursuit of 3 objectives.

  1. The prospect feels understood
  2. The prospect understands your solution
  3. The prospect makes a decision.

When I sell, I use these three objectives to select which skills to switch to in order to move the sale along.

The skills I’m referring to are primarily:

  • The ability to ask clarifying questions
  • The ability to clarify understanding
  • The ability to listen with the intent to understand.
  • The ability to help others make decisions.

Understanding the 3 Sales objectives.

Objective 1: The Prospect feels understood. 

This is often termed qualifying the prospect. Here it is easy to make the mistake of going through a list of questions without really meeting the objective.

Developing your qualifying process is important. Your qualifying process will provide the questions that must be answered in order to determine if you should continue pursuing a prospect. But if your eye (and more importantly, your ears) are not focused on achieving objective 1, you may complete ‘Qualifying your prospect, and moving on, while leaving your prospect behind and tuned out.

It’s not important that you understand the prospect. It is important that they feel you understand them. The difference is critical!

When in doubt, ask questions. Don’t just move on.

Objective 2: The prospect understands your solution.

As you present your solution, show the prospect how your solution addresses their needs and wants you that you identified while achieving objective 1. This is referred to as selling benefits, and not selling features.

If you’re doing this, the prospect will be engaged in understanding your solutions. If they are not engaged, make sure they feel understood again, or ask confirming questions to determine if they see and understand how your solution solves their problem. Don’t assume they understand.

When in doubt, ask questions!

Don’t just move on.

 Objective 3:  The prospect makes a decision.

A decision is either Yes, or No to your solution. 

Anything else is either them saying no, and not wanting to hurt you, or an indication that they do not have enough authority or information to make a decision.

Get comfortable with ‘Its not what I’m looking for’. 

There are ways to move a prospect from that position to actually buying and that requires getting better and better at achieving the first 2 objectives. But if you are subconsciously avoiding getting a no, you draw out the sales process to still ultimately getting a much more expensive no, because of the additional time invested in avoiding the decision, and still pursuing the prospect.

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Filed Under: Sales

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